Communication and Persuasion

Lies Liars Learn

Lies Liars Learn

Lies—they are alive and well, and continue to become more pervasive and destructive in our...
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The One-Call-Close Killer

Skip this if you are not a salesperson. If you do sell products or services,...
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Conflict

Conflict starts as a disagreement. One person believes one thing opposite of the beliefs of...
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HubPages Banned Me for Life

This is an actual amazing customer service situation. With some research, I found HubPages was...
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The Golden Rule Has Disappeared

Whatever happened to the golden rule? It seems we have forgotten it. The Golden Rule...

What is a Conditioned Response?

When you hear the words, “Conditioned response,” you probably think of the person walking into...
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Events and Trends and Roaches

Do you tend to overreact when faced with a new dilemma or issue? I did—until...
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Five Magic Words to Make People Like You

When you meet someone new, you want them to like you. You want them to...
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Customer Service with Prospects and Customers

You Begin as a Prospect You walk into a store as a prospective customer, a...
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Chasing the American Dream: The American Dream Falls Victim to Insomnia

We need to revive The American Dream. We need to lower the cost of child...
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Conflict Disguised as Agreement—the Yeah But

Conflict disguised as agreement Beware the dreaded “Yeah But.” What’s a “yeah but?” It’s the...
Facebook and Social Media

Facebook and Social Media

In an earlier article titled "Pick a Side," I said social media thrives on conflict....
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Pulling Out All the Stops

This is just a short, cute one. Not a ton of persuasion or communication here—other...
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Only Yes or No: Questions Allowing Only “Yes” or “No” Answers

Poison in the Dog Food? Do You Always Put Poison in the Dog Food Some...
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Common Sense is Not So Common

More people than ever are talking about common sense. Many of them have no clue...
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Keep an Open Mind

I see and hear distorted facts everywhere. Keeping an open mind is close to impossible...
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Customer Service? Do It Yourself!

Our communication skills are dying! Why? Because of "Do It Yourself," cell phones, and social...
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Hope

Hope Never allow yourself to lose hope!Hope lives deep in our imaginations. It is critical...
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Pick a Side

How we got here, I don’t know, but here we are. Our society makes you...
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Team Building in Business

Sales Meeting A Different Kind of Sales Meeting Years ago, I brought in a new...
Good enough

Good Enough

It was a powerful lesson I learned long ago when I helped a neighborhood dad....
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The Multiple Meanings of “No!”

As a little boy, I’d reach for something my parents did not want me to...